Mommy wash day routine with a toddler! *updated*

It can be a little exhausting, sometimes okay, but i am going to show you how i keep my hair healthy and strong and like moisturized all week long. So, if youre interested in seeing how i take care of my hair as a busy mom keep on watching Music, okay, so before we hop into the video im, gon na show you a few clips of my previous mommy wash day routines. This is my very first wash day routine that i did in 2021 when i just gave birth to my daughter and yeah. This is a very detailed washi routine for any new moms out. There definitely watch the video. The link is here on the screen because you are going to relate to this video okay in that video i was struggling so so much. It took me so long to finish my wash day routine, but i was still able to inspire so many mommies out there. So yeah definitely watch that video, and this is a clip of my updated washer routine. A year later, when amadi turned one um, it was still difficult, not gon na lie. It was still a struggle to get my hair done, as you can see. So definitely go ahead and watch that video as well. If you want to see the updated version of that when amadi just turned one but without further ado lets jump into the video for today. So i had a pretty rough week.

My hair is so tangled. I just put my hair in a bun for the whole week and thats definitely a recipe for disaster, because it tangles my hair, so so bad, so im going to fix that right now by just putting this conditioner in my hair and then just detangling my hair. This is going to be my pre poo, okay, im going to detangle my hair first before i hop in the shower, because its going to make my life so much easier in the shower and the reason why im using this deep conditioner to detangle my hair with Is that i figured it made my hair so so much softer than another detangling product um. You know i used to use like the african pride pre poo. I still love that its like my savior holy grail, natural hair product, because it melts dangles away like butter, but for this case i felt like my hair needed some extra moisture. So i wanted to detangle my hair with a deep conditioner and it probably doesnt make any sense, because im going to shampoo my hair anyways, so whats the use of putting a hair mask into your hair before you shampoo, your hair right, it doesnt need to make Any sense because it just works for my hair, so girl bottom line is do what works for you, okay, so im detangling my hair section per section and in total it took me, like 20 minutes, to fully detangle my hair okay.

So this is how my hair looks when its all done im going to let this marinade in my hair for like 30 minutes and then im going to hop in the shower and rinse it all off. Okay. So here i am in the shower just rinsing off the deep conditioner and now im going to shampoo my hair with the shea moisture, strengthen and restore shampoo. You guys see this in every video, so thats. Why im not going to spend so much time talking about, like my whole shampoo process, because its just shampooing, my hair thats, all so um yeah, you guys saw me, do this a thousand times already um but yeah just make sure i focus on my scalp and My hair strands that my hair is fully squeaky, clean, okay and now im going to use a product on my hair that i formulated myself. This is a highly concentrated, deep, conditioner bar for natural hair, okay, im going to launch this product – oh my gosh, you guys are the first ones that know about this. Actually so you guys are lucky okay, because i didnt announce this anywhere yet but im like testing this product over and over. But this is a moisturizing deep conditioning bar and it has a ton of slip. Okay, so the ingredients that i put in are powerful natural ingredients such as aloe vera mango butter, flax seed oil hibiscus and what has all marshmallow root, which provides a lot of slip as well, so yeah, its just a super hydrating powerful, deep conditioning bar you dont, Need a lot – and it will last you so long because theres literally no water inside theres no water in this bar, so it will last you a while okay, so definitely stay tuned for that um.

Probably next next month, im gon na launch this product, so yeah just click the link in my description box that will direct you to my website um and leave your email address, so you get notified whenever i launch this product after about 10 minutes, i rinsed out The deep conditioner and now im applying some leave in into my hair. I always apply my leave in in the shower because it makes my hair so much softer and my curls more defined than if i would do it outside the shower. This is just a preference. You know some people dont like to apply their products on soaking wet hair, but i like to apply mine on very wet hair. Okay, so now im outside the shower its time to style and finish my hair and, as you can see like applying my leave in, does work because my curls are really defined right now and super soft and moisturized so yeah thats. Why? I always like to do this so im going to braid my hair in medium sized sections, but to lock in the moisture im going to apply a little bit of my whipped, avocado and aloe vera butter. This is a product that i formulated as well and im. Also planning to launch this one as well with the deep conditioning bar. This is like a whipped butter to lock in moisture like to seal in the moisture, and it works so so well its not as heavy as some other butters, because i make sure i triple whip this product, so its super lightweight and fluffy yet locks in all The moisture makes your hair feeling super moisturized and shiny and healthy, because the ingredients inside this whip butter are only only plant based natural ingredients, very high quality as well.

Okay, i dont just like buy my ingredients of amazon, no shade to everyone. If you do that good for you says, do what works for you, but me personally, i like to get my ingredients to formulate products from from very credible um vendors, okay, vendors that are specialized in cosmetic ingredients right so yeah. This is the finished result after braiding. All my hair, it looks super healthy right now. It is healthy, okay and im going to rock this hairstyle for a few days before im going to unravel this hairstyle, and then i can rock a super cute braid out for like the next two days, whatever and then its time to wash my hair again. So yeah i finished just in time before i had to pick up amadi from daycare. This is about one hour later. Amadi is home now and i can spend all my time playing with her without you know having to worry about my hair, how its tangled, because she likes to pull on my hair she likes to play with my hair and stuff so yeah i like to keep It out of the way, okay and you know, as a mom, you tend to forget yourself every once in a while. You know you always put yourself last in front of others, and then you forget to take care of your hair, your skin, your body, your health, your mental health, whatever just everything – and i decided to stop doing that so from today i will put myself first always: Okay and take care of the things that are important to me, which is myself because if im, not okay, if the mom is not okay, then literally no one in this house is going to survive.

Okay, thats, why wow wow wow boy? Okay? It is a few days later and it is time to unravel these braids okay, because the top of my head is looking a little frizzy and i dont like that so yeah. As you can see, these braids are still looking super shiny and healthy, and they are, they are feeling very soft and moisturized. So yeah, my braid out is going to look fire im. Just saying and my curls are super defined as well, so im just carefully unraveling. These braids and im going to separate where they want to separate, naturally to minimize the frizz and yeah thats it. So this is the finished result. Yes mama. I was feeling myself at that moment because i know i look good okay. I can say that about myself. Okay, so anyways. This was like my mommy wash a routine. Why? I call this a mommy wash day. Routine is because my wash day routines were just pretty much wash and goes all the time i used to wear wash and goes non stop, but i stopped that. Okay, because it just doesnt fit my lifestyle. At this moment, i like to keep my hair nice and protected, and every once in a while im gon na, do like a super cute, braid out or twist out and thats how i got to grow my hair. So long so fast, you know because im retaining all my length because im protecting my hair so well so yeah.

Thank you so so much for watching this video.

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